Is it OK for Toyboys to ask for an expensive gift?
My toyboy of four months asked me whether I wanted to let him pick out his Christmas gift or whether I could choose it myself. He told me he trusted my taste and that I should get him whatever I want to. But the truth is, he is really hoping that I will buy him a Mercedes Benz. I think a Car is what Women should get their toyboys for Christmas. I'm sure he thinks the same way. But how could I tell him that I want to buy him a Beamer? It's not the cheapest kind of gift. How can I drop subtle hints without seeming crass?
Laura
Since this is a relatively new relationship, it's not really appropriate for him to expect a Mercedes Benz. You might want to reflect on what your expectations of this fellow are and whether they're realistic.
Why don't you give the guy a break and wait and see what happens? You might be pleasantly surprised. Remember that the only meaningful gifts we have to give are our time and attention. If they translate into expensive Cars, great. But don't discard the attributes that give the relationship real value.
